Monday, December 18, 2006

Sisters

I never really felt like I had sisters until now. There are my two sister in laws, Fermina (Ning) and Gloria (Glo) who I never realized how fun it is to have them as my sisters. Although I've only been in the Luchico fam for 4 yrs, I've gotten really close to them. We've had ups and downs, and even disagreements on things. But in the end, we're alright.

There's been some drama goin and there are two turn outs on how things can end. One, there's a lot of hate and bitterness and you just don't talk anymore. Or two, things work out for the better, w/ some sacrifices and compromises but all things said are worth it. So far its in the middle.

Well, Nings been here and we had a lot of fun the other night. We were playing a new game that will introduced to our Xmas Eve tradition, Mad Gabb.. It's totally hilarious, if you haven't played it yet! You have to state what's on the card and its really saying a name, place, thing, saying, etc.
For example: Canoe key a sea grit. Answer: Can you keep a secret? We were up until 3 in the morning, just laughing away and trying to figure out this verbal puzzles. We talked about so much, from the frustrations we had w/ the world and things that were going on around us to making decisions in our lives that benefit us in the end. Corny stuff I know but, important things.

Then there's Glo..her and I have gotten close too within the past few years. The long drive to Vegas for the funeral while she kept me company. (thanks Glo!) to just other times that we've talked. I've noticed w/ her that she's much more open minded now and that she's growing. Its great to see, cause I don't have that w/ my brother but thats okay. She's been really good to AJ too. Glo is AJ's favorite, its funny...he even looks at Ning and says "Goooo" or "Gloooo" and Ning always says back "I'm not Glo!"

Well, it's great to know that I have a great relationship w/ them. I'm glad I can talk to them about things and complain about certain stuff. I didnt have the opportunity w/ Philip growing up. So to anyone whose married or will be getting married.. Its okay to get along w/ the inlaws. If anything it makes everything so much easier. Plus the joy of watching your kids grow together and be close as cousins is always a great memory to have growing old.

3 comments:

Gloria said...

o mai gudness bery bery sweet nman..haha thnz for saying im not simple minded no more..!!!

Lanie said...

haha you're welcome glo!! ur jus da bestess!!

Mina said...

DRAMA...this family supposed to be on "Maalaala Mo KAya"...lolz